We expect great treatment and we get it now. We are women who have been married, divorced, in love, single, rich and poor, and have dated when we didn't have self worth, loved too hard and had our hearts and spirits broken, and who got back up with reknewed strength, determination and gratitude and finally got it right(or are getting it right). Today we are in good relationships with ourselves first and with the men we have allowed in. It's also about recognizing a good man when you see him too. It's not rocket science, it's calling a "spade a spade" or a "dog a dog" and its trusting your God given intuition and paying attention to "red flags" while honoring your "gut". If a man is a liar, cheater or his behavior is inconsistent and you can't depend on him when you need him, it doesn't take you thinking like a "Man" to get that.
However, our major point was that we wanted women to understand that God made us perfectly in his image, we don't have to "think like men" to understand them, we simply needed to stop falling for empty words and promises and watch their(mens) actions. In fact, some of his advice we actually could relate to but there were some things we just coudn't buy into and so we spoke about it. Yes, we also talked about some of the things we didn't see eye to eye on in reference to Steve Harvey's book(s) but he wasn't our main focus. We share all of that and more in this book. We told our stories and shared our lessons, we interviewed hundreds of men and some women and asked them the direct questions about cheating, marriage, dating and expectations that everyone wants answered. And they told it all! Some of what we found out, we didn't want to know but we were glad we were exposed.
We had such an amazing time writing this book! This was a Mother and her daughter keeping it all the way real about previous dating, marriage and love relationships.
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